“What A Confirmed Pessimist Taught Me…”

With all this talk of “The Law Of Attraction” “The Secret” etc, how can a natural and habitual pessimist succeed?  If your natural inclinication is to see a glass half full – surely that goes against the accepted thinking of “make your own luck” or ” fake it till you make it” kind of thinking…?

I’ve been doing some research to put together a short talk about teams, and was looking for an example of a really GREAT team.  I wanted an example of how diversity can be an asset.

Anyway, last year I was very fortunate to have heard Chris Boardman (Olympic Gold Medal winning Cyclist) speak last year at an EEDA event.  He was talking about his ‘Secret Squirrel’ team who were responsible for creating the greatest Olympic sporting triumph in cycling history. 

Being one of my sporting heroes, and having just watched the World Cycling Championships on TV. I thought I’d include one of his quotes in my slides, and then I came across this video, which demonstrates that not all winners are made the same way!!

Now, for anyone who is serious about succeeding in any arena, we’ve all had it hammered into us to think positive.  Thousands of books exist telling us to think like a winner, eat adversity for breakfast and to plaster our homes and offices with affirmations like “I am A Tiger!”.  We are all programmed not to entertain any thoughts that could undermine our self esteem, or dilute our self belief.

Then a confirmed pessimist comes along who openly admits to not believing that they had it within himself to win a gold medal in cycling or build a successful business promoting one of the most innovative and exciting bikes in the world. 

Now this really does fly in the face of what you’d expect from a sporting hero doesn’t it?  Especially when he succeeded at both.

Well I listened more to the video and heard Chris Boardman saying “I was an out of work carpenter with a wife and two children and no money.”  There he was sitting on the start line, on his famous Lotus bike in front of an audience of millions.  But then he thought to himself “Sod it!  I will just concentrate on being as good as I can be and then look at the board when I cross the finish line”.  And the rest of course is history because from then on he gave up trying to win and instead focussed on being as good as he could be.  That coupled with a tremendous amount of focus and effort of course!!

So, a very open admission by anyone’s standards, has led me to reflect that in fact its about not competing  against everyone else, but playing your own game and focussing on your own journey - i.e. by working on becoming a first rate version of yourself on your own terms.  Instead of scattering your energies on that big global word winning (which when you come to think about it could bring up a lot of negative feelings and associations) – whereas, just working on being as good as you can be – you can’t do any more than that can you?  And if you don’t win as a result – at least you know you’ve done all you can.  Makes a lot of sense really, when you think about it.

So work on what you have here and now, build on your natural strengths and abilities, whatever that may be – and eventually success will come to you. 

What do you think?? Is Success “out there” or right here under your nose just waiting for you to give it some attention?  Share your thoughts. Are there any more successful pessimists out there…?