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Marketing – Are You Being Drawn To The Dark Side?

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What marketing strategies REALLY work for small businesses, and what are their feelings about another alternative strategy – Social Media?

Well, it really depends which side of the fence your on doesn’t it?

Meaning that if you’re a small business which is still using traditional methods, i.e. direct sales, telesales, yellow pages, and networking, you could assume that Social Media or using the internet is indeed ‘The Dark Side’.  Phrases such as “trivial” “unethical” “glib” “superficial”"trashy” “just for kids” “unsecure” “childish nonsense” are commenly thrown at it. 

However, if you’ve actually bothered to find out what Social Media REALLY is – i.e. one of the most powerful mass influence strategies ever devised – you may well conclude that those on the ‘Dark Side’ are those businesses who’re still waiting for it to catch on and watching what everyone else is doing as they honestly believe is a passing trend.  Unfortunately ‘everyone else’ are the very individuals who’ve grasped what Social Media is very quickly and are running with it (i.e. using Facebook, Twitter and Linked In) and benefitting from it nicely already thank you.

Is the Dark Side a realm of traditional tried and tested, reliable methods, but which paradoxically for a Small Business are actually expensive, complex and for the inexperienced a complete waste of money?  Things like sending out flyers, writing sales letters (which require endless follow up with more letters and more phone calls) and costly telesales?  Is it something that they would ‘like to have’ – possibly need but can’t actually afford?

Whereas enter Social Media another ‘reality’ where for the uninitiated you’re only going to be wasting your entire day having meaningless conversations with total strangers whose only agenda is to sell someting to you, or waste your time on trivial nonsense?

But wait?

Surely a comparison is in order here – some statistics would help wouldn’t they?  Well no actually, because there are many business owners who’ve already seen these stats and are still saying “well…but why do I want to meet a million people online?  I prefer meeting people in person.”  OK what are you counterparts and competitors doing?  Is Social Media working for them?  Are they in fact galloping away and tripling their revenue? Is there any proof that absolutely convincingly concludes this question once and for all?  Does Social Media actually work?

The anwer lies really in what outcome you’re looking for.   If you want more customers, even some peoople when presented with the overwhelming body of evidence the ‘Habeous Corpus’ – still refuse to accept it.  There are some businesses that have exploded online, but despite this not everyone wants to adopt the methods or even the values associated with these business.  But my argument is – do you want to be successful or not, e.g. earn shed loads of money so that you can do more good in the world?

Is it human nature to wait until the tide comes in before acting?  Are there always going to be individuals who will wait on the beach denying the enevitable, while others (the early adopters) eagerly get their surf boards out to welcome in the tide of change? 

Social Media isn’t necessarily about going over to the Dark Side.  It’s actually tapping into the very thing that prevents many business owners from embracing it entirely – preferring to watch and wait and see ‘what everyone else is doing’.  The paradox is that they are prepared to be influenced by a large proportion of the population before they make their choice. 

But why wait to be influenced when you could begin to be one of those businesses influencing large groups of people using Social Media, therefore being seen and heard.  Get it?

What’s your opinion?  Share it here.

May 16, 2010   1 Comment

Networking Secrets From the Samurai Warrior

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If you’re new to networking (or still can’t get used to it) – you will love this!
You’re standing by the buffet at the networking meeting, alone, food in one hand and drink in the other. You’re scanning the back of the room, PRETENDING to look in control, and confident. Everyone else is carrying on animated conversations all around you, as you take a bite into a sandwich that you can hardly taste, because to be honest you’re feeling a little sick. Actually you’re feeling really sick. You’re scanning back of the room secretly hoping for the cavalry to come along and rescue you. The moments tick by, and then another long few moments. Tick Tock. You sigh inwardly as noise of all those people laughing, and making connections grows louder. You’re starting to feel like you’d rather be anywhere else but here, like the North Face of the Eiger or your mother-in-law’s for instance…. You surreptitiously look at your watch – “I’ve only been here 5 minutes! How am I going to get through a WHOLE evening?” you wonder.Someone once told me “approach your marketing, like your life depended on it”. Sure, your life is hanging by a thread right now as you stare at the ham sandwiches. You are completely riveted by the buffet and that glass of orange juice you’re holding. It’s easier than desperately looking around for someone to actually talk to. Although at the rate you’re getting through the sarnies you might need to go on a crash diet tomorrow and your GP might have to have some words about your blood pressure reading.The Samurai followed the ancient art of Bushido “The Way of the Warrior” which governed their whole thinking and behaviour. It WAS their life – their CODE, and governed how they died. The art of Bushido has been handed own through the centuries and adopted by modern martial arts such as Aikido and Karate and many of these rituals are part of modern Japanese life.

So what’s this got to do with Networking skills?

Have you ever watched a martial arts expert prepare? Have you noticed how different they are compared to the average man on the street? How invincible they look. If you watched them at the buffet eating a chicken leg, you’d think it was a lethal weapon and their demeanour suggests that they have the psychological advantage. They stand strong, they feel strong, they think strong, so they look strong. Bushido means ‘practising calmness of behaviour and composure of the mind neither of which should be bothered by passion of any kind’. It’s all about where you focus all your energy, where your attention is.

And here’s how they do it.

Now I want you to stand up. Yes that’s right. Stand up now. Take a deep breath in through your nose. Fill your lungs. Go on, deep breath. Now breathe again. Breathe out. Breathe in again, and again. Keep you feet shoulder width apart, head up. Now focus only on one spot in front of you. One spot in the distance, or on the wall. Dead ahead. Now as you look imagine that your whole consciousness, your mind, your thoughts and your feelings are moving down from your head to a spot just below your Naval. This is your centre, your Hara.
What this does is take control of your chattering voice. The annoying voice that says, “I’ll get my coat because nobody’s interested in what I have to say”. The cynical voice that says “give up now” and sabotages all your positive intentions, and makes excuses so you can let yourself off the hook and not follow-through on your actions. When you focus on the one spot and are centring yourself, your subconscious mind takes over. This is because having instructed your body to assume the stance of a warrior, your subconscious mind responds accordingly, by obeying the command to be strong.

Positive intentions, positive actions produce positive results.

 

Keep breathing; and as you breathe feel the sensation of your whole being joining with your Hara. You are no longer in your head. You are calm. Still breathing, feel the sensation your feet connecting with the ground. Remember stand straight, shoulders back, head up. You are now in a position to observe, watch and wait. Ready for any opportunity that is just about to come your way in the form of someone over there, looking at you now. Looking over at the calm composed and completely centred person eating a ham sandwich and sturdily holding a glass of orange juice like he/she owns the place. Now you must be very important, and must be worth talking to. Yeah, I think they’ve just caught your eye and are heading this way to start a conversation with you, and of course you know how to do that don’t you. That’s the really easy part.
Was this tip useful to you?  What do you do that helps you at networking events? 

Until Next Time

Warmest Regards
Wendy

Welcome to the world of self employment

Every person who has ever started out on his or her own (well unless you’re Donald Trump of course) has felt like this when venturing into the scary world of Networking. For some people it’s a piece of cake, for other’s its worse than taking their driving test, or walking the plank.

But just calm down a minute, because you are not alone and this is really, REALLY common; I confess to being absolutely terrified the first time I went to a networking meeting, AND it was first thing and I am not a morning person. Once I even set my alarm incorrectly so I arrived at 5.45 a.m. instead of 6.45 a.m. (did I feel stupid or what? Fortunately, there wasn’t anyone around to actually WITNESS me feeling completely stupid.) But we can all do with a little bit of help sometimes.  This topic came up again and again in my recent survey as a matter of fact.

So I want to introduce you to someone who can help you

I bring with me a visitor from a far away land, with a secret that you could use to take your networking to another level. But first, we need to take you away from here. So come with me and let’s meet a special person, a VERY special person, who’s going to change your life.
He’s an expert in martial arts, he’s strong, and he’s calm, in control and knows his destiny. His life is governed by very strict rules that he follows to the letter. He carries a sword – in fact where he comes from only certain men are allowed to carry swords – it comes with the honour of being a Japanese Samurai Warrior. However, please don’t turn up at a networking meeting dressed in armour and carrying a sword.

January 31, 2010   No Comments

PodCast No. 1 How to Run Your Business With Your Leg In Plaster

Running a business hasn’t all been plain sailing for Suzanne Bolwell-Davies of Flexible HR Ltd as she discovered recently.   Everything was going really well until she ruptured her achilles tendon whilst playing tennis. She’s now in plaster up to her knee and is in a wheel chair or has to get about with the aid of crutches.  Suzanne can’t drive, she can’t even leave her house!  Plus she has a daughter at school, and a business to run.  Hear how she’s been coping …

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July 21, 2009   4 Comments

Wendy is interviewed about her new book!

I was interviewed by James Watson of www.coacheswebmarketing.com about the marketing strategies I used to promote my book. Listen here.

June 7, 2009   No Comments